God taught me a major lesson
last week about how easily we judge things and people by their outside
appearances. I had just climbed off a
plane in Birmingham, England and was waiting, along with a 100 other people, for
my luggage to appear on the carousel belt.
I was on the opposite side of the carousel from where the luggage first
appeared. The 4th item of
luggage to appear was a big black suitcase that was ripped at the sides and
held together by ugly brown sticky masking tape. As I watched its progress along the carousel
the following thoughts were going through my mind:
“I wonder how someone who
can’t even afford a decent suitcase can afford to fly?”
“I would be so embarrassed to
acknowledge that as my suitcase!”“I wonder how the person who owns that suitcase is dressed?”
In Matthew there are two very
challenging verses “Do not judge or you
too will be judged. For in the same way
as you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will
be measured to you”1
John 7:24 says “Stop judging by outside appearances…”2My suitcase was filled with beautifully wrapped presents, decent clothes and chocolates.
Judging by the appearance of my suitcase you would have thought it was filled with rags.
Often things happen that are
beyond our control – I had put a big, black suitcase in good condition onto the
airplane in South Africa and had received a damaged and torn suitcase, covered
in tape in England. Somewhere in transit
the suitcase was badly damaged and yet the contents were unharmed and, thank
God, nothing was stolen.
The friends I was visiting have a son whose body is covered in tattoos and he has various piercings on his face and body. Judging by his appearance you would think he was a delinquent who took drugs and was on the dole because he had never completed his education. In fact the truth is that he has never taken drugs, has a steady job and earns a good income and is one of the kindest, politest and honest people that I have ever met. I love him dearly and yet if I didn’t know him and saw him walking towards me on the street I would cross over to the other side…………..! Thanks Matt for allowing me to use you as a good example of the old adage 'Don't judge a book by its cover'.
1 Matthew 7:1 & 2, NIV Bible
2 NIV Bible
Am loving these kind of stories!
ReplyDeleteThe suitcase story is hilarious and the tattoo-piercing story so "relate-to-able". I too have met some lovely people whose "cover" I judged only to have my mistake of judging thrown right back at me!
I often think, that judging is one of the worst things we can do to others (and to ourselfes).
Keep those stories coming! Love your blog!
Aaw, thank you Anja. Love you.
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